Right now, in our society, we are surrounded by hate. It is not just hatred directed at other cultures and religions; it is also hatred directed towards those in our game—the AFL. I witnessed this during the game against Gold Coast.

Now I understand that in the game on Saturday afternoon, the umpiring was, to put it mildly, deplorable. It was inconsistent. It was skewered one way. It was downright bordering on cheating. However, putting that aside, it showed a maturity amongst the Carlton players not to let that dissuade them from their ultimate goal – to win. I have always been a firm believer that no matter what is thrown at a team, it is how they respond to the obstacles that will serve them in the long term, the final siren being one of celebration, not of what could have been. The team showed a level of maturity that has been lacking for a while at the club, and for this, I applaud their ability to rise up and win, despite the terrible umpiring.

I will not go into specific instances, as we all know, including coaches, commentators and social media, that this game, in particular, was very poorly umpired. What the solution is, I have an idea: make umpires full-time and not part-time employed. Make them accountable should the need arise.
I understand, and so should others, that umpiring the game is a human position whereby adjudication is open to interpretation, sometimes correctly, sometimes not. This is not the issue. The issue is that it is inconsistent and sometimes favours one side during a game over another. A team will have legitimate issues if it plays against two teams – the opposition and the umpires. Yet, how a team rises above that will eventually determine how a team finishes at the last siren, even though it should not get to that point.

Now, the reason I have said that we are surrounded by hate is that I was sitting in a member’s area, and the vitriol and language used by one particular supporter who is a member was directed not only towards the umpires but also towards our players. It was abhorrent and totally uncalled for. Yet it seems that in our society right now, hate has become the buzzword and action that some believe they have the right to verbalise and shout out.
I understand that we get frustrated towards the umpires, but that does not mean we need to sink to a level that this supporter was going down to. It does not give this supporter the right to shout out what they did to an umpire who was directly in front of us. I got up and yelled at the umpire, but I said, ‘There are two teams on the field,’ and ‘Do your job.’ But this other member belittled, degraded and called him names that will not be written here. The interesting thing was that when a Carlton player performed in a way that was contrary to the umpire’s decision, he just sat there, scowling and did not celebrate as everyone else did.
This supporter then directed a diatribe of horrible language towards one of our players. The said player was directly in front of us and could hear every word. I know that there have been others who call themselves ‘supporters’ who have also behaved this way, and then when they jump off in their support, they are quick to jump back on again when it suits them. I do not and will never understand the hatred directed towards a player who is playing for our club, or for any club, for that matter. I do not and will never accept this type of behaviour. Luckily, someone told the supporter to show some respect. The supporter became slightly more silent, but the damage had been done.
The point of this article is that there is so much hatred around in our world, and it is spilling over into the game that we love so much. It’s not that the person is a passionate supporter because when we won, they just sat there, sullen and looking angry.
The point is that sure we are passionate about the game and our club, but in the scheme of what is going on in our lives, it is just a game. Sure, we want to see success, but it cannot come by sinking to a level that is downright derogatory, insulting and disrespectful. We cannot allow supporters to belittle, insult and say comments that are either racist or denigrate people. We cannot allow this level of hatred to infiltrate our game. It is bad enough it is in so many aspects of our society. We have to be just like the team, rise above the walls that get put up around us during a game, and win in a way that shows that we are better than what gets thrown at us.
#GOBLUES!
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